When attending a funeral, it is somewhat of a tradition (or custom) to bring things- it is a matter of respect and remembrance for the person who has just died and their family who are mourning.
With that, we have made a list of the best things you can bring to a dead persons wake and show your respects. Here they are:
Sympathy Flowers
You can never go wrong with flowers because they are, traditionally, a thoughtful gesture when it comes to funerals. A good way to do this would be to buy a condolences flower stand singapore style. This particular style is good for Asian people and is sure to remind them of home. Also, some good flower choices are lilies, roses, carnations, and even chrysanthemums.
Sympathy Card
Usually, a sympathy card goes hand in hand with the flowers you buy. Some stores, however, do not sell a set like this, so you have to purchase them separately. A good practice is to avoid generic cards and give your own personal touch to them- use your memories with the dearly departed person and share some thoughtful messages to show that you care.
Food and Meals
Food surely is a good way to feel good. Try bringing homemade dishes when visiting a funeral, this will help the grieving family appreciate your presence even more so they will have one less thing to worry about. Also, good and warm food, can lift up the mood of the people eating them so it might help the grieving family members if you treat them to some warm and hearty soup.
Sentimental Belongings
If you were close to the dead person, then perhaps it is good to bring an object that is a symbol of your life together. This particular one needs a lot of thought, but it will be worth it as it will let the people know the departed person’s life even more closely. Maybe you can look into places or things that are special to both of you, this will help you narrow down the search.
Conclusion
Overall, it doesnt matter what you bring to the venue when you visit a funeral, what matters is showing up and being there for the grieving family. Of course, if you have the means, then it would be best to bring something to offer your sympathies.
